My birthday is fast approaching. As I get closer to the end of another year's journey around the sun, I am thinking more about my age and my life. I'm going to be 43 (only 43!) so if I live to a nice happy age of 86, this is Middle Age.
Side note: Do women have Midlife Crises? We always hear about men having them, but I've never heard of women going through them. Have I just not seen the signs?
Last year, about 2 weeks before my birthday, I saw my first grey hair. I was sort of proud of it - for all that I'd gone through to get that grey hair, but also felt a pang of dread as I realized my life was half over.
Now it's even more half over but I don't feel the same dread as I did last year. I have a couple more grey hairs now, and am hoping soon I'll have enough to start looking wise.
So as I think about my life, where I've come from, where I am now, and where I'd still like to go in my future, I came across an article written about a nurse who has recorded the regrets of the dying on a blog and now in a book: The Top Five Regrets of the Dying: A Life Transformed by the Dearly Departing by Bronnie Ware.
From what I gather it's a memoir. The article listed the 5 regrets, so of course, I am going to share them briefly:
